NON-DIRECTIVE VS. DIRECTIVE APPROACHES |
NON-DIRECTIVE Sexual Person Theory
“Safe Sex” Comprehensive and Abstinence-Plus programs |
DIRECTIVE Whole Person Theory
Abstinence Until Marriage, Character Education programs |
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The approach is "relative" or independent of any absolutes or objective realities outside of the mind. |
The approach is "objective" or dealing with facts without distortion of what is external of the mind. |
1. The instructor presents information that is of an explicit nature, not necessarily age appropriate, based on assumption that presence of sexual curiosity justifies providing the information. |
1. The instructor presents information that is based on age-appropriateness; explicit content is limited to "need to know" based on student group's social characteristics and ethnic/gender diversity. |
2. The instructor facilitates group discussion & interaction through posing open-ended questions with unrestricted or minimally limited parameters. |
2. The instructor leads group discussions & interactions through posing questions that require a definitive answer; student participants are directed toward the stated objective truth. |
3. The instructor is required to maintain a "non-judgmental" educational approach that disallows correction of student thinking that may result in harmful and unhealthy behavior. |
3. The instructor is obligated to correct a student's thinking that may result in harmful and unhealthy behavior. |
4. The parent has relinquished the task of sexuality education to the school system or some other group. |
4. Parents are an integral part of human sexuality education and are the primary educators. |
5. Birth control options, abstinence being an option, must be presented early since sexual curiosity begins early; and, sexual experimentation before marriage is natural and normal behavior. |
5. Natural sexual curiosity develops as the person proceeds through stages of psychosexual development. Sexual experimentation is held in check through the person's use of their intellect and free will. |
6. Sexual experimentation requires the use of preventive measures to avoid pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. |
6. The person who has chosen to sexually experiment is able to stop the behavior when made aware of consequences, after receiving encouragement, purpose and peer support. |
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8. Commitment to the sexual partner is relative to overall satisfaction and happiness with the sexual relationship; mutual trust and respect is relative to one's happiness. |
8. Mutual trust and respect is established prior to sexual activity in marriage through the practice of abstinence; happiness is the outcome of deep-seated, committed friendship. |